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CODE OF CONDUCT

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A professional service. Clear boundaries. Mutual respect.

At The Massage 4U, every appointment is built around professionalism, personal comfort and mutual respect.

I provide a one-to-one massage service from my private studio in Hull, East Yorkshire. Each treatment has its own description, agreed scope and boundaries. By requesting an appointment, you agree to respect the policies below.

My studio is a welcoming, non-judgemental environment, but it is also a professional space. These standards apply to every client and every treatment.

 

01 — Professional conduct

All clients are expected to treat me with courtesy and respect throughout our communication and appointment.

The following are not acceptable:

  • Harassment, intimidation, threatening behaviour or abusive language.

  • Unwanted physical contact or any disregard for my stated boundaries.

  • Pressure to provide services outside the advertised and agreed treatment.

  • Repeated inappropriate messages or requests after a boundary has been explained.

  • Arriving under the influence of alcohol or drugs to a degree that compromises safety, judgement or consent.

I reserve the right to decline a booking, end communication or terminate an appointment if I feel uncomfortable, unsafe or believe these standards have been breached.

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02 — Treatment scope and expectations

Please read the description of your chosen treatment before requesting an appointment.

My services range from conventional massage techniques to treatments involving different levels of undress, including Lingerie, Topless and Naturist Massage. Some Signature Experiences have additional requirements and boundaries.

The exact techniques, level of undress and permitted contact depend on the treatment you have chosen. No service should be assumed to include anything that is not expressly described and agreed beforehand.

Requests for additional services outside the agreed treatment will not be accepted.

Sensory Massage — private invitation only

Sensory Massage is a specialist Signature Experience reserved for selected returning clients by private invitation. It is not available for general booking.

Its treatment format, including nudity, body-to-body techniques, intimate-area massage and the limits of permitted contact, is explained privately before any appointment is considered.

For this experience, agreed boundaries are particularly important. 

An invitation does not guarantee an appointment. I retain the right to decline a request or withdraw an invitation at my discretion.

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03 — Nudity, privacy and comfort

Where a treatment permits or involves nudity, the arrangements will be explained beforehand.

For Lingerie, Topless and Naturist Massage, you may undress to the extent appropriate to the treatment and your comfort, subject to the agreed format. You will not be pressured into a level of undress beyond what you have agreed to.

Sensory Massage has its own specific format, which is explained in advance.

Your comfort matters, and you may raise a concern, request a pause or withdraw your consent at any point. The same respect must be shown towards my comfort and boundaries.

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04 — Natural physical responses and consent

Massage and close physical contact can sometimes result in involuntary physical responses, including an erection. A physical response alone is not misconduct and does not need to cause embarrassment.

However, a physical response is not permission for additional contact or activity. Any touch must remain within the agreed treatment boundaries.

Consent is ongoing, specific and mutual. Neither a previous appointment nor agreement to one form of contact implies consent to another.

If either of us asks for contact to stop, it must stop immediately.

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05 — Strictly prohibited conduct

The following are not part of any treatment offered by The Massage 4U:

  • Oral sex or sexual intercourse.

  • Touching my vaginal or genital area.

  • Any sexual act outside the expressly agreed scope of the selected treatment.

  • Coercive, non-consensual or unwanted contact.

I do not provide a general sexual service, and requests for activities outside the agreed massage treatment will be declined.

Any serious breach of these boundaries may result in immediate termination of the appointment and refusal of future bookings.

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06 — Health, wellbeing and booking requirements

A health and wellbeing form must be completed before your appointment can be confirmed.

Please provide accurate information relevant to your safety and the suitability of the treatment. Tell me about any relevant changes to your health before your session.

Appointments are subject to availability and my approval. A requested time is not reserved until the required booking steps have been completed and confirmation has been provided.

Deposits and payment arrangements are explained as part of the booking process. Please read the applicable cancellation and payment policy before paying a deposit.

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07 — Privacy and confidentiality

Your personal information and health details are handled in accordance with the applicable privacy policy and data protection requirements.

Please respect my privacy as well. Do not photograph, record, publish or share personal details about me or my private studio without permission.

Any security measures in place at the studio will be explained in accordance with the relevant privacy information.

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08 — My right to refuse or end a session

I reserve the right to refuse or discontinue a service if:

  • The treatment is not suitable or cannot safely proceed.

  • Required health or booking information has not been provided.

  • A client behaves inappropriately or disregards a stated boundary.

  • I feel unsafe or believe consent is no longer present.

  • A client requests an activity outside the agreed scope.

Where a session must end because of a client's misconduct or a serious breach of boundaries, the applicable payment and cancellation policy will apply.

Your safety and comfort matter, and the same must be true for mine.

Thank you for respecting my boundaries

The Massage 4U is built on mutual respect, trust and a clear understanding of what each treatment involves.

By booking an appointment, you confirm that you have read and agree to follow this Code of Conduct, alongside the specific terms and boundaries communicated for your chosen treatment.

The Massage 4U
Hull, East Yorkshire
[Contact me to enquire or request an appointment]

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